Words not Guns. Reflections on the aftermath of the Charlie Kirk assassination.

Like most Americans, I’ve been thinking a lot about the assassination of Charlie Kirk. I was traveling when the shooting happened and was horrified that a person would be murdered while speaking on a college campus. While Charlie Kirk often worked to silence professors with whom he disagreed; colleges and universities should be bastions of all kinds of speech. His murder was a crime against all of us. And I absolutely understood the need for his family, friends and followers to mourn his death and lean into the deep grief of loss. So yes, let his memory rest.

But in the meantime, I started reading about Charlie Kirk. He said some truly terrible things; including that Supreme Court Justice Ketanji Brown Jackson did not have the the “brain processing power” to do her job and that she stole her seat on the Supreme Court from a white person. I cannot say if he was a racist but this was certainly racist thinking. And he encouraged polices that made the world less safe for people of color, for women and for those in the LBGTQ community. As a young man, he was rewarded by adults for his often cruel and thoughtless views on Americans and our country’s diversity.

He was also pro-violence and comfortable with

death. Kirk called for “an amazing patriot” to bail out the man who attempted to beat Nancy Pelosi’s husband to death. He approved of the genocide in Gaza. And rather than making space after the beating death of George Floyd, Kirk used his platform to call him a scumbag. Kirk wanted more capital punishment and wanted public executions to be witnessed by children as a rite of passage. He said gun deaths were a fair price to pay to preserve the Second Amendment. And he was dismissive of the death and damage that will likely come from failing to address climate change. He had no interest in understanding the lives of trans people, so he painted them as dangerous. He found it easy and profitable to make humans into other and then into enemies. He may have been a good person, but he said and advocated for terrible things.

And now, so soon after his murder, the right in America has decided not to let Kirk’s memory rest. Instead, they are using our government to lionize him in a way that makes many of us uncomfortable. And when writers have begun to examine Kirk’s record, they have been silenced; often with threats and loss of jobs. The Washington Post fired a columnist who wrote about Kirk’s record on race. (In the meantime, Fox News stands behind its guy who called for euthanizing homeless people). I drove around Florida with flags at half-staff for a young political figure whose views are opposed by most Americans. J.D. Vance says he will use the power of the government to crack down on liberal speech, in Charlie Kirk’s name. Our prez and governor make baseless accusations against “leftists” in an effort to silence reality. To the extent people say Charlie Kirk stood for free speech, let’s honor him by speaking the truth. Words not guns. I’m not sure Charlie would have agreed.

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Democrats and Gaza

I’ve been thinking so much about how Israel’s destruction of Gaza will be a significant issue for the Democrats in the next round of elections. In the past, I’ve voted for Dems with anti-Arab and anti-Palestinian positions (Hillary Clinton, Walter Mondale; even Joe Biden) in order to defeat the Republican menace. It’s even more important for the Dems to win now that MAGA is working so hard to destroy America’s foundational principles of liberty and justice for all. But I don’t think that I can vote for someone who blathers on about Israel’s right to defend itself while it ethnically cleanses Gaza of Palestinians. Is it genocide? See the link below. According to the legal definition, the answer is yes. Regardless, Israel has killed more than 50,000 Palestinians, intentionally starved the population of food and water and destroyed more than 98 percent of the housing stock in Gaza.

No one should be expected to vote for candidates who cheerlead or are complicit in this behavior. My view is that it is up to those Democrats who are inclined to support Israel to speak out and push the party to a position of humanity on this issue. Otherwise, the party leaders seem terrified of doing the right thing, not unlike Republicans who side with Trump’s incompetent nominees and obviously destructive legislation. And too many Dems are fine with conflating calls for Palestinian liberty with anti-Semitism. How the Democrats deal with Israel’s atrocities will be a defining issue in the next election cycles. Here’s hoping we do the right thing. “Night Sun” photo by Bob Bauer

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Protest.

This Bob Bauer photo always makes me think of the desert. So it seems a good image to hold while I think about what’s happening in our Congress and in Palestine today; unbelievably at the same time. It’s hard to talk about the Middle East sometimes because the issue is so fraught, even though my family history is there. When I walked the streets of my grandparent’s village in Lebanon, I had to be careful of leftover Israeli mines.

Congress is working it’s way through terrible legislation (the Anti-Semitism Awareness Act) defining criticism of Israel as anti-Semitic in an effort to crush speech in favor of justice for the Palestinian people. At the same time, Israel has made plain its plan to cleanse Gaza of Palestinians while it continues to engage in a war of starvation. So many children are being killed, and dying simply for the crime of being born in their homeland. We like to think humanity is past this but here we are, not only being silent in the face of atrocities, but making silence the law of the land; all while our bombs and bullets bring death and destruction to human beings and we help destroy the infrastructure and agriculture necessary to support life.

This is not just Republicans. Democrats are complicit. John Fetterman recently said “kill them all” when discussing his support for Israel’s campaign of terror. Fifteen Democrats are co-sponsors of the Anti-Semitism Awareness Act.

Our representatives will all be cheerleaders for this campaign of death and silence. Calling is so hard when it feels pointless. Does Mile Lee listen to anyone? But it’s on my to-do list.

“Cleavage” untitled abstract photograph by Bob Bauer.

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I’m back!!

I started this blog in 2011 and published all of one post which was somewhat well received. I have been thinking about writing again ( I have no idea why I stopped) and was surprised to find that my original blog still existed. Very surprisingly, I was able to sign in and here I am. I notice a few drafts from the time Bob died and I may publish one of those with some edits as well as new thoughts about the world. I even have some updated thinking about my mean girls post. We’ll see how it goes!

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Playing with the mean girls.

They come to the house with striking photographic stories about adventures in fitness. They bike to work, play soccer on the weekend, do yoga and run like Heidi on snaking trails across the sides of mountains. They wear the latest; spandex, supplex, organic cotton. It looks like fun and I have to admit; I want to play. But when I try to arrange a get together, the answer is always no; not today, not now, probably not ever.

The girls come to my house in catalogs; from Athleta, Patagonia, Title Nine.  The photographs are inspiring; the Patagonia catalog often includes a shot of a woman running along a high mountain trail; surrounded by wildflowers or snowy granite peaks. I want to be that woman; and I’m ready to buy the clothes. Yet despite my moderate level of fitness from trips to the gym or hikes at altitude in the Wasatch Mountains, there are very few clothes that will fit my chubby body in these catalogs. Okay, I’m a fat girl (my fault) and short (not my fault) and so I fall outside the range of clothing made by many of the hip and inspiring merchants of women’s fitness wear.  But I am not alone.

Sitting at my computer today, I’m wearing a pair of x-large petite yoga pants from Athleta. They’re wearing out and I would buy another pair but Athleta did away with its x-large petite sizing in 2009.  In response to my complaint, I got a corporate speak non-answer. A question to Title Nine resulted in the suggestion that I shop plus-size websites. And an e-mail to Lululemon got me the usual; a non-promise to think about it.

According to information around the web, including from the Centers for Disease Control, the average American woman is about 5 feet 4 inches tall and somewhere between 140 and 165 pounds. This correlates to a clothing size between 14 and 18 for most women. Yet at Lululemon, the trendy maker of yoga and pilates gear, most of the clothing tops out at size 12.  At Title Nine, many items go up to size 14 and others go to x-large, which correlates with a size 16; unless you’re a petite (me) where the sizes only go to large. A large waist size is 32 1/2 while an extra large waist is 35; two inches smaller than the average waist size (37 inches) for an American woman according to the CDC.  Athleta offers what they call “special sizes” for regular height and tall girls but considers an x-large to be a waist size of 33-34. Similarly, a Patagonia x-large has a waist size of 33 1/2.

I can hear the accusations of whining and yes, I am guilty. But I do think something important is lost when the makers of fitness wear decide that the average American woman is too fat to wear their clothing. Because really, the accusation of whining will undoubtedly be followed by a demand that those of us who don’t fit the clothes lose weight. Get out of your chair; go for a walk; push yourself away from the refrigerator. But while the less than average girl gets to wear a cute pair of “Dream pants” with a “Willpower” short sleeve t-shirt, the rest of us are left with shorts from the big box store and whatever cotton shirt happens to fit, which may or may not be the best, most appropriate active wear for the activity at hand. Nor are shorts from the grocery store likely to provide any incentive to get to the gym.

So back to the mean girls. Title Nine, under the heading “About Us,” says “We are evangelical about women’s participation in sports and fitness.” Really? You can’t pat yourself on the back for being an advocate for women’s fitness when you exclude a substantial part of the population that wants to play with your toys by saying “sorry, you’re just too fat….we don’t play with girls like you.”

CDC data: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/bodymeas.htm

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